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Don’t Put Jesus First

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Part 3

Don't Put Jesus First -- Week 3

Don't Put Jesus First -- Week 3

Ken Tram

Acts 12:1-17; 1 Peter 5:7

When the scoreboard says there’s no way to catch up, whether it’s a health scare or a strained relationship, what do you do with an impossible situation? Pastor Ken opens with a lopsided youth football game and then turns to Acts 12, where Peter sleeps in chains the night before his trial while the church prays earnestly for him. His argument is that prayer begins with surrender, requires trust, and brings freedom through continued surrender, because God is bigger than whatever is holding you back. It’s for anyone trying to carry more than they can control.

COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT THIS MESSAGE

How do I pray when a situation feels impossible?

Pastor Ken’s starting point is surrender. In Acts 12, the church faced a king who had already executed one apostle and jailed Peter, and their response was to pray earnestly rather than scramble for a workaround. The message says prayer begins by handing the situation to God, trusting that he is bigger than what you can’t fix, and then continuing to pray.

What does it mean to “cast your anxiety” on God (1 Peter 5:7)?

Pastor Ken points out that “cast” means to throw, not to toss something out and reel it back in. The verse says to throw your anxiety on God “because he cares for you.” The message says we’re often trying to carry weight we weren’t designed to hold, and that surrender means actually letting go of control, not just saying the words.

Why was Peter asleep the night before his trial?

Acts 12:6 describes Peter sleeping between two soldiers, bound with chains, the night before Herod planned to bring him out. Pastor Ken reads that as trust: Peter wasn’t losing sleep over what he couldn’t control. The message adds that God was already working while Peter rested, and that answers to prayer depend on God and not on our own effort.

Does prayer change God’s mind?

The message says prayer is less about changing God’s heart and more about changing ours, so we learn to trust him more. Pastor Ken doesn’t treat prayer as a way to talk God into something or as a magic request line. He describes it as leaving the outcome with God and saying “your will be done” no matter what happens.

What does it mean to pray “earnestly” in Acts 12:5?

Pastor Ken explains that the word translated “earnestly” carries the sense of fervent, persistent, and stretched out, like a posture of surrender. He ties it to the church in Acts 12 that kept praying together, even gathering at a house, and was so surprised when Peter showed up at the door that they first told the servant girl she must be out of her mind.